RT and stuff

I know there has been lots and lots of chatter, speculation, recapping etc of RT, and well, I’m sorry to say I have no gossip, no spot on observations. See how boring I am? I don’t have the first clue if any of the stuff reported from RT is true or not because when I’ve been asked about it, my response is huh? Really? I had no idea. :lol2:

I did my own thing at RT and had a pretty good time. Oh, I take it back, the one thing I can confirm is that the hotel sucked rocks. I’m STILL sick and I’ve been sick since the very first night I was there. :kap:

I stress about conferences because they’re out of my comfort zone. I’m not a socially adept person, and as a result, I’m sure I come across as rude or withdrawn. Totally not my intention, but I’m painfully shy/uncomfortable in situations that pull me out of my comfort zone. Get me in a small, intimate setting with people I trust and am comfortable with and I’m extremely outgoing.

So anyway, the conference got off to a terrific start because Kimberly Kaye Terry was on my flight from Houston to Pittsburgh and we rode a cab to the hotel together. She is such a terrific lady. She’s funny and intelligent and she’s one of these people who is just nice to everyone, and she has this really gorgeous smile that warms you to your toes. I hate her for that. :purplelaugh:

Tuesday night, the first night I was there, I hosted a reader party for our Writeminded readers in my hotel room. It was so much fun. I bought pizza and several readers brought goodies with them and we just hung out and chit chatted. I gave away some of mine and Jaci’s books, and we just had a good time.

I got to see Beth Williamson. I heart her so much. She’s just so warm and friendly. I wish so much success for her, and I have a feeling we’re going to be hearing some verra good things about her in short order :whoo:

Also caught up with Lauren Dane pretty quickly, though she fussed at me about my lack of proper greeting. See, I told you I sucked at the whole social stuff *sniff*

Oh and I can’t forget my favorite Brit, Shara Cooper, who unfortunately got sick as did many others :passedout:

I saw Dakota Cassidy regularly in the smoking area, and while I ran into her once or twice at last year’s RT, we didn’t really get to chat until this year. She’s hysterical and completely irreverent. (I love irreverent people)

Spoke briefly with Sasha White and Sylvia Day. I went to their mixer (my only party I went to at RT lol) but then I spent the majority of the mixer talking to Shelley Bradley. I love getting together with her and talking shop because we share a lot of the same…philosophies shall we say. :nunchuk:

Some people I only got to chat briefly with like Shiloh Walker and Lora Leigh, both of whom I’d only met in person at this RT. They’re both really lovely ladies, very warm and friendly. (Obviously I have a thing for warm people lololol)

Probably the highlight of the entire conference, though, was getting to hang out with so many cool readers and booksellers. Bookseller Ann rocks. Wonderful lady. Readers Ann and Renny. Two super cool ladies. They both have the most beautiful smiles! I wish I remembered more names. I’m so terrible with them. But I remember every single reader I met (just not their names damn it) and I sincerely treasure each of those moments. I wouldn’t even BE at conferences like RT if it weren’t for my readers and so I can’t say enough how much I adore each and every one of them.

Oh and a special hello to the smut sluts who came by to see me at club RT! Very funny and nice ladies.

The Samhain crowd was terrific. I don’t speak often about my publishers or hold gush fests (and I wont lol) but I’m really happy to work with some consumate professionals. Notice I did not say BFFs or “family” *shudder* I’m a business bitch, and these ladies are hard core professionals. Love that about them.

Well, except Marty. I’m sorry but she’s one person I just have to hug and smoosh and love on. Because I love her.

I’m sure there is a ton of stuff I overlooked and people I left out, which is why I usually hate doing recaps and shit, because it horrifies me to be rude and for anyone I spoke to or hung out with at RT to think I didn’t value their time.

One of these days I’ll get used to going to conferences and won’t spend the first several days in the throes of terror and maybe I can REMEMBER more of what happens at them :sack:

Don't remember…

if I mentioned, and I probably haven’t, but I’m having my website redone. I’m branching out from writing *just* the southern set hot romances and so I want a website that is not so specific to “Sexy Southern Romance.”

See, my PLAN was, for any non erotic romances I published to be under Sharon Long and reserve Maya Banks for the erotic stuff. That was my plan from day one. I just never expected Maya’s name to take off and garner the readership. So when I sold my contemporary RS series to Berkley Sensation, we decided to use Maya because well, she has a readership and Sharon doesn’t and I don’t want to start all over again.

But I told myself, never fear, there was still that whole pipe dream of writing for either Harlequin Presents or Silhouette Desire and I couldn’t imagine H/S wanting me to use a pen name that I wrote erotica under so I figured if and when I made the sale to H/S I could use Sharon Long for that and develop a whole new website for Sharon.

Well, then I sold to Silhouette and my editor said she was more than happy for me to write as Maya. Oops. Poor Sharon. She’s been officially put to bed before she ever got her chance :lol2:

So anyway, I now need a website that can reflect not only the erotic romances, but also the contemporary RS’s I’m writing for Berkley Sensation AND the contemporary romances I’m writing for Silhouette Desire. Hmm maybe I need a new tagline now. Damn, I really liked Sexy Southern Romance :help:

It's been awhile…

since RT, but I’m STILL sick :crying:

The first night I was at RT, when I went to bed, my throat hurt so bad I couldn’t swallow. I gradually deteriorated until by the time I got home I had a head full of snot (lovely image, yes?) the entire right side of my head is completely and utterly stopped up and I can’t hear a damn thing out of that ear. I have no voice (Im sure my husband isn’t complaining) and my head hurts so damn bad that I’m thinking an ice pick through the eye ball would actually feel GOOD right now.

Despite my grumpiness and feeling like crap, I’ve been writing. A lot. I don’t have TIME to get all sick and whiny. Sweet Persuasion is going…well. Finally. I struggled with it in the beginning but then I got into the groove and the pages have been flowing a lot easier. I want to have it finished by May 15th. It’s not due until July 1 but uhm I have to finish Into the Lair by then and I also have the proposal for Desire book 2 due June 1.

I then have to write Desire book 2 and THEN I finally, FINALLY get to dive into the series I sold to Berkley Sensation. It’s been killing me to stay away from it. I wrote the proposal back in Feb I think? And I’ve had to lay it aside because I have other books and proposals to write but as soon as the second Desire book is done, I am all over The Darkest Hour. Can’t wait!

This business is best handled with patience and gee, I don’t happen to have a patient bone in my body. I’m probably the most IMPATIENT person I know, which Amy will atttest to…

I’m gonna go whine to my husband and get some sympathy snuggles from him :hug:

Updates!

Several updates to my website :banana:

I now have blurbs and excerpts for Stay With Me (May 6th release) Reckless (June 3rd release) AND I finally have a blurb AND a long excerpt for Be With Me which releases this November (can’t wait!)

I’m currently writing like a fiend on Sweet Persuasion (Damon’s story!) which is why I haven’t been venturing out of my cave much.

I also just mailed in my first Desire book today :whoo:

Think I’ll go celebrate with some grape Nerds :lol2:

Back from RT

Apart from the downsides that everyone is already well acquainted with, so I won’t even bother recapping, it was a good time, and I got to meet and hang out with lots of readers :whoo:

The Writeminded reader get together in my hotel room was fun. We’ll definitely have to do it again next year.

I got to visit/talk to lots of fun authors at RT. I won’t list them because invariably I’ll leave someone off that I don’t mean to, and let’s face it, my brain at a conference is just a mess.

I was in bed every night no later than midnight. Thursday, I had the worst migraine ever known to man and I actually went to bed at 7 that night. I had a breakfast scheduled the next morning with my Silhouette editor and the last thing I wanted to do is scare the ever loving shit out of her by looking like death warmed over.

So I took some good drugs and passed out until Jess and Joy came into my room before 11. I could hear them whispering OMG Maya’s asleep and then there was lots of “tee heeeing” and rustling around before they left again. :purplelaugh:

I’ll fully admit that I skipped all the parties because A. just so not my thing and B. so not my thing. I don’t do costumes, and yes, I know, going in costume is not requried but did I mention the parties are so not my thing?

I made one exception and went to Sasha, Sylvia’s and Vivi Anna’s party/hangout thing (because I think they’re cool) but then I spent most of it chatting with Shelley Bradley lol.

Once again, Marty adopted my whiny ass and made the conference a very bearable thing. What can I say. I’m a cave dweller. I’m intensely uncomfortable in large crowds and I’m completely inept in social situations.

And all the fun and good gossip usually happens in the smoking areas, so even if you aren’t a smoker, it’s a good place to hang out. I always ran into Dakota Cassidy outside and so we alternated petting and insulting each other. Hey, I did say all the fun happens in the smoking areas.

Sucking wind

like a marathon runner! :passedout:

I’m in denial over a LOT of things right now and it’s totally a coping mechanism lol. Because if I embrace reality then the meltdown will commence. :kap:

I shopped yesterday. I hate shopping. Really, really hate it. But I did girly stuff like hair *sigh* and then went clothes and shoes shopping. I had to buy a larger suitcase because even with mailing two big ass boxes off for RT, I still have a crapload of stuff to bring. I don’t look forward to having to lug that damn suitcase all over the airport.

Oh God, I just said airport…. :faint:

I made a list yesterday in an effort to comfort myself (I love lists) because on paper, things always look more manageable. So now I have an order of events, oh for the next year or so. Never mind that it won’t go down like that. That’s not the point nor is it important. What’s important is getting through the present without a straight jacket and lots of drugs. :help:

Going deep into my cave…

As in not even checking email deep (gosh that sounds scary doesn’t it) I leave for RT a week from tomorrow and aside from all the packing, errand running, last minute junk I have to do for RT, I also will be writing 35k words between now and next Monday night.

I’ll be in complete and utter hibernation from 8am to 3pm. I have baseball and softball games and practices all week in the evenings so I’ll have to crawl into the land of the living for those occassions :beam:

I’m hoping to blog from RT and post some pics but that will depend on how conscious I am while in attendance :help:

Weekend fun

Still battling the post root canal blues :violin: I’m taking antibiotics because I’m sure the stupid tooth is infected hence the agonizing pain.

Middle son’s birthday was yesterday and we’re celebrating the entire weekend. He’s out picking out his new bike right now and then we’re making his favorite cake followed by a barbeque.

We’re also celebrating my three book deal with Silhouette Desire because this is dream sequence stuff. Selling to Harl/Sil was at the tippy top of my career “to do” list as in something I didn’t expect to achieve for a few more years. That I’ve done it NOW is more than a little overwhelming. I’ve floated since receiving the news on Thursday. I’m not sure what could possibly top this but I’m certainly willing to find out :lol2:

Scarce

That’s a word to describe me for the month of April. I am swamped with stuff that everyone wants right now, stuff that needs to be done yesterday, and OMG I was struck by the realization that RT is just two weeks away and OMG Im so not ready. :passedout:

I have so much to do that for once I’m not breaking out my much loved list. Making a list right now would send me right over the edge.

In the meantime, I’m going to continue on in denial…